Post 12

Hey everyone, I'm back in the blogging world.. Anyways

You know there is something weird in the world we live in, and the people who live around us. Well there are these types of people who really care about others and people who just like to play and hurt others. And us, we always push these ones who care about us and go to those who hurt us, it's funny how many people tweet about it and they fall into the same mistake. Well try to stay close to those who care you'll miss them one day..

You know, in life everyone wants to be loved, everyone wants that person who cares about them and love them.
Here's how it goes, you talk to a person, you start liking that person so much, you do many things just to get their attention, you try hard to impress them and you just feel like that person is the right person for you, you start to have feelings for that person, and sometimes the other person feels the same way, so you both tell each other how you feel and you're finally together , that's what you both wanted..
What sucks is that this world is weird, sometimes when you get that person that you think is gonna be the one for you, once you're together things change, feelings change.. Yeah we live in a messed up world.
If you go to a person who used to love and you asked them if they believed in true love, they'd say it might exist.. Bas love al7een killa y9eer 9udaf doesn't it?
You people should really stop looking for the right one to love, it sounds easy to look for but it's hard to get.. A great friend always told me don't look for the right person, the right person will just come one day. Stop searching and just hold on and wait.
But if you didn't get that person, don't be like my life is fucked up and all that, don't be depressed, you know you've got your families love and your friends, these people are always gonna be there for you, maybe not all your friends but I'm sure at least one will be there for you.
Always look at the bright side and don't just give up on waiting.

Post 11

How are you guys doing, I hope you're all doing great..

You know many people change, some change to being better and some change in a bad way..
Well we all see that, and we mostly see it with friends and in relationships 9a7?

When you first know a person they can care about you, always be there by your side.. But some people can be like this just in the beginning then they change. They show you that they care and show you that they love you but some people suddenly change, they just meet a new person and do the same thing that they did with you. Yeah this life is full of people like this, FAKE people.

What I hate most or what everyone hates is when someone makes a promise and brakes it, they promise you that they will always be there for, you but when you need them the most they aren't there for you and you were always there for them, it hurts doesn't it? They promise you things ohma mu gadhaa, well you shouldn't make a promise you can't keep..

In the life we live in its full of fake and 2 faced people, and full of people who only care about themselves they care about their feelings only and not care about others, they care about what they feel and not about the person who they broke.. Nas ma tfakker ila bnafs'haa.

Mithil il nas ily tedawer faydat'ha bil 7ayat o ma yhmha ghayr nafs'ha, or can I say selfish people..
These type people may have many friends they might be living their life, the type of person ily when he loses a friend ygoul 7ayatey ma tougaf 3alayh and he has ghayrah.
But you know one day these people are gonna stand by their self and have no one next to them.
And if you think ina 8eemtik bayn il nas ra7 t8el itha you had a problem with a person and i3tethart even if you weren't il ghal6an then you're wrong, bil3aks ra7 tekbar b3ayn kil insan and mafeeha 3ayb if you apologized to someone, and if a person came to you and apologized make sure that this person is a true friend, he doesn't do it 3ashan shay but he does it because he doesn't want to lose a friend. And I'm talking about the true people ily fahmeen not the ma9la7cheeya cuz fe nas mumkin tridlik 7ag ma9la7a well you're the one who's gonna be the judge.

Always think positive and look at the bright side, and make sure you don't trust anyone easily we live in a life with dangerous people.

Post 10

Hey everyone i'm back, sorry for not posting for a while.. kan 3endy thirouf.

Anyways..

You know, we all lose people, people we loved, people we cared about, people who taught us alot, special people..

Few days ago they told me that my grandfather passed away, i was really shocked I couldn't believe it, my heart stopped when I knew that he's gone. It really hurts when you lose a person you really love..

My grandfather was and still is a special person to me, I learned alot from him he taught me so many things and these things are helping me so much in my life, he helped me reach my goals, he always wanted the best for everyone, he always wanted his family to be together..

The sad thing is that he lives is saudi so i can't see him every week, I used to see him twice or three times a year. Although I have alot of memories with him I always enjoyed my time when he was around.

When we lose a special person we all have regrets, we regret that we didn't spend much time with that person, or that we didn't used to ask about them much, or that kinna i7na sibab za3al hal shakh9 ib youm, specially if that person was family, but never regret it won't help always think of the good times you had with that person.
You know they always say family comes first, l2nna wallah mafey shay hurts more than when you lose a person in your family.. You guys you should always appreciate what your family does for you, mahma gisaw 3alaykum mahma galaw 7ata lu thayagkum dayman put in your minds in hatha 7ag ma9la7atkum, we don't see that now you won't feel this now you'll understand this later on, maybe some get what I mean..
Take advantage of every minute with your loved ones, they might be with you today but one day they won't. We're all gonna die someday.

Me and my cousins were talking about my gradnfather and how he thinks, and I wake up the next morning knowing he's gone.
It hurts so much, it hurts when you see all your family crying because we lost a person we all looked up to, and we still do.
All we can say is il7amdellah 3ala kil 7al everyone is gonna leave no one lives forever..

Always do the best for today because you might not live tomorrow, you never know when your times comes, life isn't a game. have goals and reach them and always put in your mind " what do I want to be known as " this will help you alot to reach your goals.

Post 9

Stereotyping..

We might have this alot here in kuwait, and we also have that people judge others by the way they walk or dress or talk.

If a guy dresses really nice or if he doesnt like sports it doesnt mean he's gay, you know what I mean?
If a girl walks with a bunch of bitches it doesn't mean she's a bitch.
If a guy walks with smokers it doesnt mean he smokes.
I think you got the point.. Well thats how people here bil kuwait think, they can judge guys or girls without knowing anything about them.

I've seen this alot, guys yetmashoun in malls and when they see a girl wearing tight jeans or a short dress they call her a hoe.
Like come on you guys ley hal daraja tafkeerkum is that low?

Or if they saw a good looking guy they call him gay.. They can call him gay 3ala how he walks or how his hair looks like, Its funny how some of 3yal deratna tafkeerhum is so low. And hal tafkeer mu bas 3ind il shabab 7ata 3ind il girls, some think the same way too.

Well i'm sure ina that person you're judging by his or her looks can be better than you in something.
And its 7aram calling a girl a hoe without knowing who the hell she is.

Ok, Would you like itha a7ad gal hal kalam 3an ikhtik? I'm sure no one would like if a7ad judged his sisters 3ala the way they dress or who they walk with. Everyone knows ma9la7ta, o killin 3ala ma tirabbah 7aka o fi3al.

Al7een mu il islam ygoul inna killina khuwan bil islam, o hathey illy ga3id tetkallam 3anhaa o you're saying things that you don't know if its true or not ma tkoun ikhtik bil islam? I really hate how these people in this generation think.
Let her wear whatever the hell she wants, ihya waraha ahal ykalmounha o yet9arefoun ma3aha.

You can't judge others without knowing them, I swear if people really thought this way if they didn't judge others without knowing them many things will be different, not only bil kuwait but everywhere.

Post 8

Let me get back to relationships ;p

You know these days everyone is looking at the others from the outside, and what i mean is they look at how others look. And most relationships end fast, you know why? because the girl or the guy just looks from the outside and doesnt look at inside, and what I mean by the inside is that they don't see how they treat others they love the looks but not the personality, a true lover is the person who loves the inside which is the personality more that the outside which is the looks.

Many girls who are beautiful from the outside can be messed up from the inside.. She can be the girl who just wants to get the guy because he is who ever he is or because he has whatever he has you know what I mean? Guys can do that too.

Well since its mostly girls who get hurt here where I live lol, so don't you girls ever think how you got hurt? or wait don't you ever think ina how do guys think about girls?
Let me give it to you straight forward, MOST GUYS LOOK FOR THE QUALITY.
They just look at the outside, you fall for him you love him truly and he loves the way you look but not who you are, he likes your body or how you dress but not your heart.

The guy who fights to get you and takes forever just to be with you, he might be the one, well you're the one whos gonna be feeling that. But the one who easily comes mostly never lasts.. Like they say easy come easy go..

Choose wisely so you don't but your self in a situation you dont want to be in, no one ever wants to be hurt.

Post 7

Sorry i've been busy these few days..

Well let me talk about something we call " 6naza ". We have this here in kuwait kil ma a7ad sawa shay they go and make fun of him or her. You know I think most fights happen min il 6naza, wa7id yithgha6 il thaney till he gets pissed and a fight starts.

Ok its fine make fun of people bas not in a rude way like don't cross the line.. Fee nas ya3ney 3indina i7na il guys fe guys they make fun of the other guys parents, it is wrong bas what if the guys father or mother is dead? Like it'll really hurt the person jad.

Kuwaiteyeen they make fun of everyone, they can yet6anizoun 3ala a person and how he lives, like come on you have no idea what that person is going through.. Everyone has his own problems and don't judge others if you don't know them, you don't know what they're going through and you don't know how they're living.. And gabil ma tshoufon 3youb il nas o tith7koun fakraw ib 2 things, 1- would you like it if someone talked to you this way or tha7ak 3alayk? 2- Look at yourself before looking at others.

 Jad itha il nas fakirat chethey ra7 ykoun fee less problems and life would be relaxing and easy for people. Like fe nas tfaker inna ohh ana barou7 school ilyoum and they will make fun of me o ra7 atma9khar, yeah fe nas tfaker chethey bas itha kil wa7id lah shighl ib nafsa things will be easy for others..

Post 6

I just came back from soccer practice, so exhausted but i'll try my best to make this post good enough..

Anyways I mentioned in some of my last posts about types of people its true that there are so many types of people, nas ily yenshad feehum il thahar o nas rideeya o mafeeha khayr, min hal nas ily mafeeha khayr people who I call "haters", let me define haters hney bil kuwait.. Haters here bil kuwait are jealous people bil nisba ley, like jad they get jealous if you play soccer better than them and when you play soccer against them they hit you o ohma mit3amdeen, and I've been there.. And ana ashouf fee wayid haters o aktharhum ib ask.fm am I right?

You know ever since I made this blog I did get haters, and since I started playing soccer I got haters too, but you know what I always say? Haters always make me famous. People mostly hate others for what they have or if they were better than them in something, and they hate people who are different. Like ana I'm a guy and I have a blog, I talk to girls but treat them as sisters I have many things ily ykhalouney different than others, and I love being different because il nas ily ashoufhum nafs il shay a3tibirhum nas ma 3indaha shakh9eeya.

Haha its funny how il nas ily they see people who are different and yeth7koun 3alayhum, they laugh at how they walk or how they dress and how they talk, but they don't realize that different people laugh at them l2nnhum they're all the same, like come on ma tamshoun in 360 or any mall and teth7koun 3ala how most kuwaities are the same? Well to be honest I do;p. I like being different because different grabs peoples attention.

My grandfather always tells me, what do you want to be known as? That's why I always want to do something different I always want to be different than others. So people should really stop hating and some people should have their own personality be different shway, but in a good way. 

Post 5

Every human makes mistakes, we all make mistakes.. But some people make the same mistake over and over again and some people learn from their mistakes.

Some girls get in relationships and some relationships go on well and some don't, some girls are happy in their relationships and some get hurt. And the girl who gets hurt well the smart one wouldn't love again but the stupid one will make the same mistake again.. Well 9ara7a most people do the same mistake akthar min marra, bes when do we realize? when we get hurt. Like the girl doesn't love again when she gets hurt, the fast driver who gets in an accident won't  won't drive fast again, you see we never learn from our mistake till we get hurt.

People should really learn from the first time, I know we aren't angels and we make mistakes but the smart person is who when he does a mistake he learns from it, not does it again. 

Another thing I noticed in life is that when we do something wrong we say "sorry" well sorry is used a lot these days.. Ma nla7ith hal shay bas we say sorry and we do the same mistake again. 

Like in relationships, i know i'm always giving examples ib relationships bas that's the most thing that's going on ib our life.. Anyways, in relationships every person who was in a relationship got hurt once or more during the relationship till they brake up, the the guy or the girl well mostly here its the guy so he comes back and he says sorry, do you really think that sorry can change feelings? Do you think that a simple sorry can heal the pain? Well i'm sure its a no.. We all do say sorry, yeah we apologize when we do something wrong but sometimes sorry has to be by actions not by just saying it, many people don't realize that.

Post 4

In the life we live in or lets say kuwait, you all know shimatat ba3th il kuwaiteyeen and how some are..
So girls gather and guys do too, and they all talk o sometimes they talk 3an a person maybe what that guy or girl is saying is true maybe its not. Mushkelat mujtama3na inhum they judge other people by kalam il nas and without knowing them, then he goes spreading rumors 3an the person o ygoul il 3ayb ily feeh. These are the types of people who i call "assholes" too, like you should see il 3youb ily feek gabil ma tetkalam 3an il nas.

I really can't believe how girls and guys say that.. Ok let me give an example about girls: fe some girls when they see another girl they get jelly maybe because she has a nice body maybe because wa7da min the girls friends t3arf that girl and they are close, so here comes the bitchyness tgoum il bint o ti7tar then t6ali3 kalam 3an that girl o she says hathey suwalifha she talks to wayid guys and bullshit.. and spreads it to her friends o il mushkila inna some girls do believe it, then they go back stabbing the girl wihya mu msawya shay. Yeah there are people like this, and its the same with guys too.

But fe nas thanya when people talk they just listen bas they don't judge others till they know them, and iv'e been in this situation guys came and told me hatha la tmasheeh suwalfa chethey and they bullshit, but when i got to know that person its 3aks what they said. You see how low people can be.. 

Mostly people y6al3oun rumors 3an other girls or guys because that person is better than him or her in something, or that person is different. Well people should be different l2nna different is better and il nas ily nafs ghayrhum a7s'hum ma 3endhum shakh9eeya or fake.. So yeah different is better, much better.

Post 3

Let me talk a little about friendships here in kuwait.

 mithil ma aku 2 types of people "kind" and "assholes" bil kuwait. Aku 2 types of friends too first type ohma ily they really care or let me make it clear " true friends " friends who are always by your side a guy or a girl, a friend who always has your back, a friend who when you tell him or her a secret they keep it a secret.

True friends are the people ily laman you9alehum kalam from other people about their friend they don't believe it because they know the person really well, and the problem is hal shay y9eer wayid hney bil kuwait, ina a girl or a guy y6al3oun kalam 3an a person trying to ruin that persons reputation  these are low people, il mushkela some people believe it even though the friendship is for years they believe it. I don't consider these people as real friends.

People like that are considered as the second type of friends and they are what we call here " ma9la7cheeya"  
these kind of friends can be kind from the outside, they can always be there for you but at the same time back stabbing you. He or she can be your friend for a year or more, but when they get what they wanted they just leave and forget all these years, they forget all the things you did for them. typical people.

I swear that you can barley find true friends here in kuwait. Most of them are 2 faced or ma9la7cheeya, and what i mean by 2 faced is they act nice in front of you but behind your back they trash talk about you, they say good things in front of you and bullshit behind your back.

That's a reason why many people don't trust easily, so never trust a person or open up to him or her so fast they can back stab you really fast too. 

Post 2

There is something weird, something wrong in this world or the life we're living. I realized that here in kuwait, when you care for a person that person doesn't give a shit, when your'e kind to them they call you "9aida", when you do them a favor they don't appreciate it, you love them but you end up hurt, you share secrets but they got what they wanted and left you behind, you trust them but they stab you in the back, pfft typical people.

Well hatha tafkeer il nas ily 3goulha sgheera, because most people who are left behind are people you can never find.

And another thing that i see a lot here bil kuwait that most girls who get in relationships end up getting hurt and broken, fe marra any of you girls thought of this? like why do you girls always end up hurt? why are you the ones who can't move on? Maybe its because some girls trust too fast? maybe you liked the outside of the guy but didn't think of the inside? Or maybe you fell for the wrong guy? Yeah i guess these are all the reasons, most girls trust too fast, they don't think of the consequences, they just think of the positive things in the relationship.

And the most important they forget about their parents, they forget how they were raised. Bil 7altain you both are wrong, the guy and the girl, well the guy because hes a jerk and mafeeh khayr and the girl because she trusted the wrong person.

Its true that this is life, you love and end up hurt and you move on.. But sometimes its hard to move on and trust me I know how it feels. So you girls if you were more careful of what you choose if you thought twice you wouldn't end up hurt.

This is something i always say and keep it in my mind when bad things happen to me " God Only Makes Happy Endings So If Its Not Happy Its Not The End"

So never think that if a bad thing happened to you or if you got hurt that its the end, bil3aks its a lesson for you to learn, i think that we get hurt to learn our lesson so we don't make the same mistake again, this is life..
we're humans we aren't perfect that's why we make mistakes we're not angels.

And the smart person is the person who learns from his mistakes and fixes things not doing the same mistake again.

So just always think positive, look at the bright side, and never think that its the end, I swear it'll change your life.

Chapter 1

Hey everyone, well i'm kind of new with this shit but this is something different. well you see all blogs talk about love and most are like the same.

Let me start by talking about myself, well i'm a kuwaity guy almost 17 and i'm a soccer player. I've got 2 years till i leave high school and i'm working my ass off. 

Lets get started with the story, i'm gonna be talking about life and people here in kuwait, well as you all see there are many different guys and girls here in kuwait there are the good-kind type of people and there are assholes.

 As what i see ana arou7 duwaneeyat wayid and every duwaneeya lazim they talk about girls and their girlfriends. And what i see is ina wayid guys they talk to girls and yel3boun 3alayhum and guys ily they say ana akalim flana o ana akalim bint flan ''these are the assholes i mentioned''. Like il bint laha sum3a o sum3at il bint in tha3at t'thee3 il bint, and hney in kuwait wayid guys yeftakhroun ina they talk to this girl and this girl o yeftakhroun inhum they're playing on them, well that's so low, because hatha wa7id ahalah ma 3refaw yrabounah and fe mathal ygoul ina ily mafeeh khayr ib banat il nas mafeeh khayr ib ahalah. Like its not cool to play on a girl or to play with her feelings its not gonna make you a man, well a real man would take care of the girl like his sister and y7afeth 3ala sum3at'ha, but you can rarely find guys like this here in kuwait. Most guys take what they want from a girl and leave her broken. 

Bas mita the guys really feel ina playing on girls is something wrong, when it comes to his sister. So you assholes should always think of it this way before making a move '' what if someone did that to my sister '' maybe this way our messed up generation will be a bit better.